Solo date ideas aren’t about filling time or proving a point. They’re about choosing yourself for a few hours and doing something because it feels good. Maybe that’s a solo museum date, seeing a film that none of your friends want to see, or taking a book to a restaurant and confidently asking for a table for one.
Spending time alone doesn’t have to feel performative or productive. It can be relaxed, indulgent, and satisfying. This is a guide to solo dates that feel easy to slip into real life, no grand gestures required.
St Pancras: boutiques and spicy margs
When it comes to stylish solo dates, St Pancras hits all the right points. This buzzing neighbourhood has undergone a serious glow-up over the years, transforming into quite the hotspot, packed with cute shops and the latest 'It' restaurant. There are now tons of fun things to do around St Pancras which make for the perfect solo date idea.
Whether you want to start things off with a coffee or something stronger, German Gymnasium is the place to go. Did you know that this elegant café-restaurant is housed in a historic building? You'll understand once you admire the architectural flair. Next, wander to Coal Drops Yard to browse the boutiques. Maybe pop into Astrid & Miyu and get a bracelet to commemorate your day.
When hunger strikes, head to El Pastor, one of London's favourite taquerias. Think tasty tacos, mango margaritas, and a lively atmosphere that’s just as enjoyable solo as with a group. Tacos are too good to share anyway. Finish up with an indulgent hot chocolate from Le Chocolat Alain Ducasse where it's made right in front of you, and enjoy the short walk back to the station to jump on the train home.
Herne Hill: trendy South London
If you're craving a slower-paced day for your solo date idea, Herne Hill is the perfect antidote to the busy city life of central London. This Thameslink-accessible spot feels like a hidden village, and you'll feel the friendly community spirit as you wander through the quaint streets.
Begin your day at Lulu's, a cosy deli and wine bar that's a sure favourite among locals. Whether you're opting for a coffee and croissant (the smell of the baked goods will hit you as soon as you open the door) or a glass of something sparkling, it's an excellent way to kickstart a day of just you.
Next door you'll find Herne Hill Books, an independent bookshop that caters to a variety of needs. Whether you're looking for a something you can't put down or the latest non-fiction, pick up something that intrigues you, as you'll need this for the next part of your solo date.
Take your new literary treasure for a stroll (and eventual sit-down) in Brockwell Park. This gorgeous green space is like 'Primrose Hill of the south' and after you've stretched your legs, there's no better place to unwind and get lost in your new read than one of the park benches here.
Around lunchtime (or when your stomach grumbles, whichever happens first), head down the road to the Half Moon Pub. A favourite among south Londoners, this Grade II listed hotel offers a warm welcome whether you're dining on one of the hearty dishes or simply popping in for a drink. With historic décor throughout and an overall cosy feel, you'll be walking back to the station with a spring in your step when it's (eventually) time to go home.
Farringdon: foodie heaven
For a solo date idea that blends history and hipster vibes, Farringdon is the place to be. Known for its vibrant mix of old-school charm and modern style, this area is perfect for wandering at your own pace.
Start your day with a trip to Exmouth Market, where you’ll find a variety of quirky boutiques, cafés, and street food stalls. Pick up a flat white and enjoy a spot of people-watching as the area buzzes with energy.
If you’re a history lover, don’t miss the chance to visit Smithfield Market, one of the oldest markets in London, or take a short walk to the Charterhouse, a fascinating museum with a history dating back to the 14th century. Feeling peckish? Luckily, you're in the right spot – as there's so many independent restaurants within walking distance of the station.
If you fancy a hearty, standout meal, it has to be Quality Chop House. It's not light on the purse strings (or stomach) but you'll walk out a grateful human being. After something a little more casual for your solo date? Black Bear Burger is one of the best in London and the Exmouth Market branch is no exception.
So, what are you waiting for? Grab your railcard, pack your bag, and let Thameslink take you on an adventure that’s all about celebrating you. From embracing the city buzz to tranquil, leafy escapes, these are destinations that prove that solo dates are never a bad idea.